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Dating Expert Julie Paiva ia a renowned speaker and dating/relationship coach & Founder and CEO of Table for Six Total Adventures, northern California's premiere singles dining and events social club. For the last 9 years, Table for Six Total Adventures has been bringing together single professionals with our unique, low pressure 3-man 3-women dinner parties and events. Table for Six is the largest and most renowned singles club in the nation bringing together hundreds and hundreds of marriages, and countless love connections, romances, friendships and network contacts as well.Throughout the years, we have set the standard for excellence in personal service, customer care, and matchmaking in the Throughout Northern and Southern California. Julie is the driving force behind Table for Six, with more than 10 years of successful relationship coaching, stints as a fashion model in Paris, Executive Director of a nationally recognized modeling school and agency, and a double degree in Psychology and Sociology. Julie provides the experience, savvy and passion necessary to dominate the singles industry in California, and the momentum to carry Table for Six toward nationwide expansion.

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Friday, October 28, 2005

Julie's 15 Dating Tips on Creating and Maintaining Love Connections

  1. Visualize and "act as if" each person you meet really "gets you" - in other words, really understands you.
  2. Make a decision to make each person you meet feel really comfortable. This will alleviate any nervousness you’re feeling. Think of yourself as a gracious, charming host/hostess wherever you are.
  3. For the next 30 days concentrate on really liking the opposite sex - thinking of each one as a safe ally.
  4. Become your own best cheerleader and your own best friend - this will aid you towards "flourishing" in a relationship, not "needing" a relationship.
  5. Always speak well of your family & friends-conversely avoid a partner who speaks poorly of their friends and family.
  6. The most exciting person to be around is the person who is excited about their life-be positive and optimistic about your life.
  7. Look for commonalties, not differences-if we all knew what our "type" was, we wouldn’t be alone. Look for similarities, enjoy contrasts and be more open-minded.
  8. Never give up all your friends and outside interests for your partner. It’s important to keep the multi-dimensional features that made you attractive initially.
  9. Treat your partner with kindness & respect. Never take each other for granted - be best friends.
  10. Develop and demonstrate a real interest and support for your partner’s career, friends & family.
  11. Your partner need not know everything about you . Keep a little mystique.
  12. Get in the habit of always putting your partner in the very best light- give them the benefit of the doubt and concentrate on what works, not on what doesn’t work.
  13. Minimize arguments and confrontations by avoiding the blaming word "you", as in "you made me late for work." Rather, use "building bridges" words as in "let’s figure out a new way to mange our morning schedules." Think and act as a team.
  14. Avoid treating your partner like a child, no one wants another mother. They are not your project!
  15. Laugh. Together. A lot.



Julie Paiva is the Founder & CEO of Table for Six Total Adventures™; The premier northern California singles dining and matchmaking social club. Julie is a recognized dating/relationship expert and Image Consultant, and is available for individualized coaching. For appointments call 415-782-0680.

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